Do's and Don’ts of Swinging

Are you excited to explore the exhilarating world of swinging? Awesome! But hold on a second—before you dive in with both feet, let’s ensure you have all the necessary tools to maneuver through this electrifying lifestyle like a seasoned expert. Here’s your cheeky guide to the essential do’s and don’ts of swinging—because nobody wants to be "that person" at a party!

Do #1 : Communicate Openly

Let's get real - before jumping into the wild world of partner swapping, you and your other half need to talk. Like, really talk! What sounds fun to you? What's totally off-limits? Spill all those thoughts bouncing around in your head. After all, you can't read each other's minds (wouldn't that be cool though?). When you're both crystal clear on what's what, that's when the real fun can begin!

Don't #1 : Assume Everyone Has the Same Rules

Every couple has their own vibe, and that’s totally cool! Just because your friends are all about that “no strings attached” life doesn’t mean you have to jump on the bandwagon. It’s super important to respect what other couples are comfortable with, and don’t just assume they think like you do. Consent is everything, so if you’re feeling a bit lost, just ask! It’s way better to clear things up than to end up in an awkward spot.

Do #2 : Dress to Impress

Let's talk party outfits! Want to turn heads at your next event? Rock whatever makes you strut your stuff with confidence. Could be that killer dress, those fancy pants, or that top that makes you feel like a million bucks. Just skip the frumpy stuff (looking at you, cargo shorts!) and wear something that makes you think "Damn, I look good!"

Don't #2 : Forget About Personal Hygiene

Taking care of yourself might seem obvious, but let’s be real: personal hygiene is a must! If you’re looking to have some fun, you need to be ready. Clean yourself up, keep those nails neat, and don’t forget about some grooming. Rock those fresh clothes, too! Seriously, nobody wants to deal with funky smells at a party!

Do #3 : Good at Your Own Pace

Want to try swinging? Start slow and have fun! Visit a club first - you can just watch and meet cool people. No pressure! It's like dipping your toes in the water before diving in. See what feels right for you and your partner, and let the good times roll when you're ready.

Don't #3 : Be a Drama King or Queen

Keep the theatrics for your next acting gig, drama king/queen! Swinging is all about having a laid-back good time, not about jealousy or fighting. If things get a little heated, just take a breather and relax. Remember, it’s supposed to be fun, so don’t let silly arguments spoil the atmosphere. Nobody wants to be that couple known for causing a scene!

Do #4 : Have Fun!

Just keep in mind that swinging is all about fun, excitement, and a little bit of sexy exploration! Stay open-minded, relax, and don’t stress too much. Dive into the adventure and enjoy every moment—this is your opportunity to make some amazing memories!

Don't #4 : Be Jealous

Jealousy can pop up in any relationship, but it can be a bit more complicated in swinging. It’s totally normal to feel a bit envious when you see your partner getting flirty with someone else, but keep in mind that it’s all about having fun and exploring together! If those jealous feelings start creeping in, take a breather, have a chat, and adjust your boundaries as needed.